How do i setup integration so my shopping cart can send orders to your site so I don't have to click the order button?

Most of the time, you can forward your customer sales email confirmations to sales@a1tech.com

1) let us know you plan to do this by asking for this service (help@cd-fulfillment.com)

2) Here are the details: http://www.trepstar.com/sales-email-forwarding-service.asp

You can take greater control however.

Click Here to learn more about order automation

You can also:
1) creating a free account and project. 
2) when at the project list area, click the integration button. This shows you good information about integration.